Often when you have been in a relationship for a long time, your sex life can start to become routine and boring. How do you go about spicing it up without doing things that you might find uncomfortable, immoral, or degrading?

As a recognised authority on lovemaking techniques, James Downing will provide just a few things that you can do to help you if you want to know how to please a woman, or how to please a man, just that little but easier.

Lovemaking Suggestion One

Lovemaking secrets do not have to be that complicated. Never underestimate the element of surprise. Sometimes all it takes to put a woman (or man!) in the mood is just coming up behind them unexpectedly and wrapping your arms around them. Nuzzle her neck and nibble her earlobe. Ladies, if he is sitting on the couch watching TV, try running your hand up his thigh. Believe me, the television will all of a sudden seem less interesting.

Lovemaking Tip #2

Often the act of making love can seem repetitive because of the location. Do you find that it is always in your bed? There’s nothing wrong with that of course, but in order to inject something new into the act of lovemaking, purely by having sex in a different place will make it feel more exciting. Your living room, for example (ensuring curtains are closed of course!) is a great place to make love because you will normally associate it with more mundane activity. Believe me, you won’t look at that couch in the same way again.

Lovemaking Tip #3

Both men and women like to be appreciated. Nothing turns a woman on like her man telling her that he appreciates all she does around the house. Cooking, laundry, cleaning, taking care of the children. Women also need to know that their husbands find them beautiful. As they grow older, have children, and go through bodily changes, women become insecure in their appearance. They need to be made to feel attractive. Men in turn also need affirmation. They want to feel that their wife feels appreciation for their hard work. They also need to know that their wife still finds them sexy. Telling your man that you appreciate him will definitely win you points!

Lovemaking Tip #4

How sexy do you think your partner feels when you throw yourself into bed and suggest sex? A little bit of preparation will help get them in the mood surprisingly well. Choose some suitable music and have it playing quietly in the background. Perhaps some candles placed strategically around the room. Setting the mood is all important in improving the enjoyment of your lovemaking. Please don’t think this is cheesy – done correctly this is extremely effective.

My most important tip for lovemaking is the most simple, but often the most difficult to address. It’s honesty. Do you really know what turns your partner on? Do they know what really turns you on? Ask them what they want, what they like and what they don’t like, encourage them to be honest. You will find that this is reciprocated. A major thing in common with both male techniques and female techniques is the power of honesty.

I firmly believe that simplicity is the key, and that it can be easy to overcomplicate looking for ways for impact your love life. Take is slowly with these simple techniques and see your sex life improve.

Tags: Enhancement, female techniques, health, Love, lovemaking, male techniques, Relationships, Your Health & Body

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